Episode 37
Overcoming the Shadow within Us with Dr. Will Sparks
Dr. William Sparks is an associate professor of behavioral science and has consulted with numerous organizations in the public and private sectors, including the U.S. Navy, Transamerica, Duke Energy, Wells Fargo, and the U.S. Department of Energy. He is also a principal with Sparks & Associates, LLC, a professional services firm focused on leadership and team development, corporate creativity and innovation, and change management.
Today's episode is all about Jedi master training, and most importantly, the shadow within all of us that we'd rather not reveal. We also share tips on the power of self-awareness and why we need to acknowledge the dark side of ourselves to be fully integrated humans.
Topics Covered:
00:00 Introduction
03:17 Biggest challenges so far in Dr. Sparks' life
08:14 How Dr. Sparks owned up to his own shortcomings
10:48 The benefits of overcoming your radical self-interests
13:12 The role of humility in growth and success in life
15:24 How Dr. Sparks would coach Darth Vader and Princess Leia
19:25 The three main shadows in leadership
21:18 The concept of paradoxical intent
24:54 People often meet their destiny on the road they took to avoid it
26:34 Are you a self-actualized leader?
28:25 What it takes to live a life of abundance
31:01 Life is a series of decisions and choices
33:19 Why it's important to be aware of your dark side
36:44 Routine for setting your day up for success
39:10 Dr. Sparks' book recommendations
42:23 Dr. Sparks' definition of success
46:19 Parting thoughts
Links and Resources Mentioned
DrWillSparks - Consulting, Coaching
The Power of Self-Awareness TED Talk by Dr. Sparks
Actualized Leadership: Meeting Your Shadow and Maximizing Your Potential by William L. Sparks
The Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod
Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl
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